Squirting Orgasms

One of the things that’s undoubtedly caught many people’s imagination is the idea of female ejaculation, also known as squirting or gushing.

The fluid that is ejected when a woman reaches orgasm is produced in her Skene’s glands or “the female prostate”. There’s been some debate as to whether or not it’s actually urine, but in reality it’s a fluid produced by prostatic tissue surrounding a woman’s urethra.

(Sometimes it can be forced back into the bladder if a woman clamps her muscles down for fear of expelling urine at the moment of orgasm. This seems to account for some studies which suggest the composition of female ejaculate is similar to, well, urine.)

What’s the point of female ejaculation?

It’s exciting, it’s powerful, it increases the sensations a woman feels at the moment of orgasm by many times. It’s a powerful and arousing expression of female sexuality.

A word before we go any further: if you’re worried about a woman peeing rather than ejaculating, have her urinate before sex takes place. That way, whatever she squirts when she comes – or when you the man make her come – is going to be liquid produced during sexual activity.

Simple, yes?

How To Squirt

To make a woman squirt, you need to build her arousal, stimulate her G spot in the correct way, and make sure that she knows what to do and has “permission” to make a mess.

You see, female ejaculation happens when you’ve managed to arouse a woman and then built a level of sexual tension that will take her to a powerful orgasm.

And a great way to make a woman come to enjoy connection, love and affection before you even think of getting sexual. Don’t just enjoy sex and romance in the bedroom – make it a part of your life.

Building love and trust is also important. And it goes without saying, so is knowing the kind of sexual techniques that will arouse your partner when you’re in bed together.

To be honest, if you’re at all interested in making a woman come, then you need to know what you’re doing. In particular you need to have the right emotional and physical techniques at your disposal.

Let’s examine the physical aspects of squirting and G spot stimulation. 

Don’t worry about the exact location of the G Spot. All you need do is insert a finger or two far enough inside her vagina to be able to press on the upper front wall using the pads of your fingers. You may find it easier to use your middle finger or, if you are using two fingers, your middle finger and forefinger.

The G spot is about 1 to 2 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall as a woman lies on her back. Before she’s sexually aroused you can feel this as a ridged area. (Inserting a finger before she’s aroused is not likely to be a good experience for her!)

As the erectile tissue in this part of the body fills with blood, the surface of the G spot becomes smoother and swollen.

When you’ve found the G spot, press and release the area in a rhythmic, regular steady motion. This mirrors the movement of the penis over the G spot, which would be the natural way of stimulating the G spot to the point of female ejaculation.

The rhythmic motion of pressure on the G spot and the release of that pressure allows for the ejaculation of fluid when she comes.

This ejaculation cannot take place if you maintain constant pressure on the G spot because the urethra is effectively blocked. Indeed, if you’ve watched female ejaculation films on the Internet, you’ve probably seen how female squirting takes place when a man removes his finger or penis from the vagina.

So how much force do you use? It’s an important question, because, as you’ve also probably have observed if you’ve watch these films on the Internet, there’s often a huge amount of pressure put on a woman’s G spot before she ejaculates.

But in reality, different women have different physiology, so you really need to discover what makes your partner ejaculate. It could be a big mistake to copy or imitate anything you’ve seen on the Internet!

Remember, the objective of this whole process is to make your woman come in a way which is much more powerful and enjoyable for her.

And that in turn requires you to be sensitive to what she needs to pleasure her sexually. Knowing what to do with a woman in bed is art rather than science, so it’s wiser to take “instructions” as guidelines. That way, you can adapt what you’re doing when the need arises so as to better suit your partner.

The classic motion that’s described in many places is a hooking of your fingers in a come-hither motion, as you move them backwards and forwards over the G spot area.

However, I have seen other experts suggesting all you need to do is sweep your fingers rhythmically over the surface of the G spot. It’s up to you to find out which techniques will make your partner come.

Of course one of things that any woman needs to know is what to do – she’s got to learn to squirt.

If you want the pleasure of seeing your partner squirt, and she doesn’t know how to do it, then you must take the lead in telling her what to do.

So: you have your fingers inside her? Then tell her to tighten her muscles around your fingers.

When she’s tightened her vaginal muscles around your fingers, you can ask her to relax them. Now you can tell her to “push out” instead, to open up, just as she does when she’s peeing.

It may take a while for her to learn how to push, or rather, to become confident enough to do so, but when she does, you’ll feel her push your finger out of her vagina.

The next step is to tell her that when she reaches orgasm she’s got to push out when she comes. Even if she feels like she’s going to pee, and even if liquid starts spraying around, she must continue to push. So having towels around and making sure she knows this could get messy is important!

She needs to continue to push out even when the fluid begins to squirt.

And you may also have to remind her to push at the point where you start stimulating her G spot in a fast rhythmic way. If you hear a splashy sound, she’s almost certain to squirt in a moment or two.

At the moment of orgasm, her female ejaculatory fluid will most likely spray out forcibly through her urethra in large amounts.

You can continue G spot stimulation til her orgasm ends. Share the experience, discuss with her how it felt for her, and make sure you thank her for the excitement and the shared experience.