The G spot

With the benefit of an internet connection and plenty of porn at your disposal, you probably know where the G spot is. But you may not know what to do with it…. so let’s find out.

The G spot is a very sensitive erogenous zone inside the vagina. (In case you don’t know, an erogenous zone is a part of the body which is particularly sensitive to sexual stimulation.)

So, there’s this special area inside the vagina – the G spot – which is able to produce very pleasurable and intense sexual and orgasmic feelings.

And science has demonstrated that every woman has a G spot, although in some women it seems to be very elusive. You know this, maybe? Perhaps you’ve had some trouble locating it. Maybe you have found it but you just can’t seem to stimulate it in a way which produces pleasure in your woman. And as for making her wriggle and even ejaculate with pleasure as she comes, well… damn those porno films! It looks so easy there…!

But this is hardly surprising really. For years even the medical profession didn’t accept there was such a thing as the G spot! So how could a poor woman (who was merely born with one) be sure there was such a thing either?

The truth is that these days MRI scans have demonstrated every woman has a G spot. Every woman is therefore capable of even more powerful orgasms with squirting or gushing as an optional extra!

If you’re not sure about your own or your woman’s G spot, keep in mind that this area isn’t the same in all women. Therefore, you might find the descriptions you read on the Internet don’t apply to you or your partner.

Still want to try and find her G spot?

Here’s how. As your woman lies on her back, feel inside her on the upper wall of her vagina , anywhere from near the entrance to about 2 inches inside.

This area is highly sensitive, or it lies over highly sensitive tissue, but in either case, touching it will produce strong feelings of sexual pleasure. Although touching it can also release repressed feelings from the past, including anger and grief. 

The sensations vary from woman to woman; for example, one description we’ve heard is “something like a warm flushing feeling that moves deeply through the entire body”.

Some women find G spot stimulation produces an emotional experience rather than a physical experience of pleasure. But whatever it feels like, it can certainly be a much deeper experience than a woman gets from stimulation of the clitoris alone. In essence, G spot feelings have an emotional component as well as a sexual component for many women.

The Female Prostate

The female prostate (aka Skene’s glands) is another term for the G spot. This tissue seems to be very similar to that of the male prostate gland. It can produce chemicals similar to those made by the male prostate.

Sure, there’s no reason for this fluid to be produced in woman, so you can regard this as the same sort of phenomenon as male nipples. They have no function in terms of child-rearing – they just happen to be in the human genes.

One interesting similarity between the male prostate and the female G spot is that when the G spot and prostate are stimulated  by sexual arousal, they both produce a kind of fluid. In a woman, this is unlike the lubricating fluid produced in the vagina during clitoral stimulation. 

Some women say they ejaculate a clear fluid and some say they ejaculate a white milky fluid during an orgasm induced by G Spot stimulation.

Making A Woman Come With G Spot Stimulation

To start, we’d like to describe how a woman can find her own G spot.

Lie on your back, and relax, making sure you will have time when you’re not going to be disturbed, time in which you can enjoy pleasuring yourself.

Bend your knees up, and spread your legs, so that your vagina is easily accessible. Locate your hand in front of your vagina with the palm facing up, and insert one or two fingers inside. As you do so, press them up against the upper vaginal wall an inch or two inside.

You’ll feel some spongy, ridged tissue, which may not necessarily feel like it’s going to give you any pleasurable sensations.

Gently massaging this area with plenty of lubricant, particularly when you’re sexually aroused, will likely produce a change in the texture of the internal tissue. The texture may, for example, change from ridged to smooth and full. This change is due to engorgement with fluid in response to increasing sexual arousal. At some point you may find you suddenly have an urge to urinate. This is a sign you’ve found your G spot and you’re in the “right” place.

Some women think it feels as if they’re going to urinate, but this is a sensation which will pass quite quickly if you continue to stimulate your G spot. If you’re in any doubt about this, empty your bladder before starting your exploration.

As you continue stimulating the area, you’re going to probably find a different kind of sensation, more pleasurable, beginning to develop.

So now, experiment with different pressures, different forms of touch, different speeds of movement, and different types of movement, to see what happens.

If you’re on your own, there’s no reason to feel worried or inhibited about what’s going to happen (whatever that is). Rather, simply decide that you can let yourself go, and enjoy an orgasm if it happens.

If you’re worried about producing fluid or “squirting”, then simply put some thick towels underneath you so there’s no danger of making a mess in the bed.

G Spot exploration as a couple

Suppose you’re with a partner, and you’d like him (or her) to explore your G spot. A great way to start is to have him or her insert two well-lubed fingers inside your vagina and move them gently along the upper vaginally wall. Remember, the more aroused you are, the more it’s going to swell, and the more obvious it will be. You may wish to  delay the moment of “finger entry” into the vagina, and his or her search for the elusive G spot, until you’re feeling some degree of sexual arousal.

Perhaps a better way to enjoy this exploration is to start with clitoral stimulation. This will arouse you sexually, until, at a certain point, a finger or two in your vagina will become beautifully pleasurable in combination with the clitoral stimulation.

Of course a man who’s stimulating in this way has no way of knowing what feels good to you. Give him some feedback, and explain to him how you’d like him to move his finger. That might be in circles, from side to side, backwards and forwards, whatever.

But the important thing is that when he begins to do something which feels good to you, you should tell him to continue!

And you may wish to ask him to experiment with harder pressure. The G spot is tough enough, even though it feels soft and swollen!