How A Man Can Help A Woman Reach Orgasm

The massive amount of information on the internet about about how to make a woman come, help a woman to achieve orgasm, or even (god forbid) “give a woman an orgasm” shows how much men want to please women in bed. 

So let’s take a look at some ideas that may help you increase the satisfaction and pleasure you and your partner experience during lovemaking. And there’s nowhere better to start than by looking at the best sex positions for female orgasm.

Man on Top Sex Positions – Good For Female Orgasm?

Most people use man on top or the missionary position to make love. This means having the man on top, the woman on the bottom, face-to-face. And despite the fact this position is often written off as “old-fashioned” or a symbol of male dominance, it is still very satisfying and very popular.

Certainly if you read articles in Cosmopolitan and such like on the Internet, you’d think that this would be the last position anybody would ever want to try.

The best guide to man on top sex positions on the web can be found here.

Yet like we said above, when you look at the positions that people actually use when making love, guess what? Yep – the good old man on top comes out favorite by a long way. It’s used by more people, more often, to make love than any other.

Man on top remains popular as ever, despite all those great ideas on the web!
Man on top remains popular as ever, despite all those great alternatives you can find on the web!

And there has to be a reason for that! Maybe it’s the one in which women can come most easily? Well, no, because it isn’t. There isn’t much access to her clitoris, and clitoral stimulation is what most women need to reach orgasm. So do you think that might just be the fact that it’s very satisfying, and both men and women really enjoy it?

You see, there’s a lot going for the man on top position. It allows the man and woman to have good, intimate connection and look at each other, there’s lots of bodily contact, and the man can support himself on his elbows as he thrusts. Admittedly, none of this means the man will be able to make his women come in this position.

But even so, man on top is highly adaptable. The woman can lie on her back with her legs flat on the bed spread wide, or she can draw them up her sides, or even further up with her knees coming up to her chest. Sometimes she can reach down to stimulate her clitoris, which will give her a better chance of reaching orgasm.

One of the reasons man on top is so popular is that it feels good. It’s very adaptable, so every couple can find the ideal orientation of their bodies to best suit the angle at which the man’s penis enters the woman’s vagina. After all, not all penises and vaginas are the same shape or size!

Another variation of man on top is for the woman to lie on her stomach, and have the man enter her from behind. Now this is more likely to make a woman come. The advantage of this sex position is that the man’s penis can more likely strike her G spot in this orientation. However, if he penetrates her vagina too deeply, he might hit her cervix, which can feel uncomfortable.

Best of all though, for a man trying to give a woman an orgasm during intercourse, is the adapted missionary position known as the coital alignment technique. This is specifically designed to make a woman come. Read more about it her.e

Do you know how to make a woman come during lovemaking? We’ll look at this in a moment…. and don’t forget, the best approach to sex is one of equality. Read on.

Woman on Top Sex Positions 

Woman on top lovemaking
Woman on top lovemaking

This position gives the woman much more control over the speed, rhythm and depth of penetration. It’s most commonly seen as the woman sitting on her man, straddling him around his hips, guiding his penis into her vagina. After he inside her, he can either remain upright or lie on top of him, with her legs bent at the knees or stretched out behind her.

See more woman on top sex positions here, including those which help to show you how to bring a woman to orgasm.

Most people seem to enjoy having the woman simply sit straight up onto the man. This allows the possibility of both clitoral and breast play for the woman, either with her own hands, or with stimulation by her man. Either approach can help a woman come more easily, because of the additional clitoral stimulation.

The other advantage is that in this sexual position the woman can “grind” her clitoris against her man’s body as she leans forward. This gives her a much greater chance of reaching orgasm.

People call this woman on top sex position the Cowgirl. And it follows that the “Reverse Cowgirl” is where the woman sits on top of the man with his erect penis inside her as she faces his feet. In this position the sensations can be powerful, but there’s much less intimacy, so this may be more of a physical sensation than an emotional experience.

Side-by-side sex Positions

A wonderful position for couples who want the pleasure of intimacy, eye gazing, lots of bodily contact, and the possibility of manual stimulation for the woman’s clitoris. You know that’s the easiest way to make a woman come,  right? And of course, if you can make your woman orgasm while your penis is inside her, you’re going to have a fabulous experience.

Side by side is certainly a position for slow and gentle sex, because you’re not going to be able to thrust very hard or fast in this position. One of the disadvantages, of course, is that one partner has to have a leg underneath the other’s, and this can become little bit uncomfortable.

If the woman is facing towards the man, it’s a very intimate position and one that can help a man last a lot longer before he ejaculates. This is because the erect penis seems to receive much less stimulation in this sexual position. The woman still receives plenty of internal vaginal stimulation,  which raises the interesting possibility of G spot stimulation and G spot orgasm for the woman.

And as you probably know, if it’s done with a woman facing away from the man, this position is sometimes called “spooning”, in which sex can be both delightful and sensual, and you can fall asleep in that position afterwards.

Rear Entry Sex Position

Usually used to describe the sex position when a woman is kneeling and man either stands or kneels behind her and enters her from behind.

It’s a “love it or hate it” position – men tend to love it, and a lot of women tend to hate it, because of lack of intimacy and the suggestion of male dominance. Of course, that in itself may be exciting enough to make a woman come during sex. It’s all about what turns you on as an individual and as a couple.

So, yes, one great advantage of rear entry is the likelihood the woman will have an orgasm. It’s a sexual position which allows deep and powerful thrusting by the man. It also gives the woman the opportunity to feel lustful, raunchy, and highly sexual.

Female Orgasm During Intercourse

It’s highly amusing that Cosmopolitan thrives on providing titbits of sex information. It’s perhaps less amusing that Cosmo not only publishes articles on how few women reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, but also publishes articles headed with titles like “Your Orgasm Guaranteed“. I mean, make your minds up, people. Can a man make a woman come during sex or not? 

Despite this inconsistency, Cosmo may have useful information if you want to help a woman achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse. And coming during sex is certainly a beautiful experience. So let’s examine what Cosmo has to say about the possibility of making a woman come during sex, by adapting the most common sexual positions slightly.

Man on top – a great way to make a woman come?

To start with, the man on top sex position can be adapted so it’s much more likely a man can give his woman an orgasm.

When the woman is lying on the bed, on her back, she can put a pillow under her butt, lifts her hips, and move her legs up and backwards towards her shoulders. This position can be very arousing for a man with a full on view of the woman’s vulva, and I guess it’s fun for some women.

Of course it allows deep penetration, as well as a good view of the man’s erection sliding in and out of the woman’s vagina – which is very arousing.

However, the point is that in this position a man can more easily stimulate his partner’s G spot with his erection as he makes love to her. Unfortunately, few men can last long enough before they ejaculate for a woman to reach orgasm through G spot stimulation alone (it takes time). 

In fact, most men are very likely to ejaculate before the woman’s reached orgasm. So when the woman is sufficiently aroused, it’s a good idea to switch into the position used for the coital alignment technique. You can read more about the coital alignment technique or CAT here.

The CAT involves regular rubbing of the man’s pubic bone on the woman’s clitoris, which is likely to bring her to an orgasm – and perhaps even lead to simultaneous orgasm for the couple.  

Rear Entry Sex Positions To Make Her Come

Next, Cosmo offer an adaptation of the rear entry position which is supposed to make it much more likely that a woman will have an orgasm.

Instead of the conventional kneeling & man entering from behind approach, the woman needs to lie on her stomach. She then lifts her butt slightly as the man enters her from behind. This gives rhythmic stimulation to her vagina as he thrusts in and out, and also lets the woman grind her clitoris against the bed.

Woman On Top Sex Positions For Female Orgasm

Woman on top is often a good way for the woman to achieve orgasm easily. She can touch her clitoris or rub it against the man’s body as she leans forward. This way her clitoris receives all the stimulation she needs to bring herself to orgasm.

Alternatively, by moving her body against his, the woman can rub her clitoris against her man’s body. Moreover, if she leans backwards, his penis is going to press against her G spot and potentially give her additional stimulation. All of this might well help to make a woman come during lovemaking.  This matters because any man who knows how to give a woman an orgasm will be a man a woman wants to be in bed with. And she will be fulfilled and happy, both inside and outside the bedroom.