How To Make A Woman Come – Five Top Tips For Men

Men: How To Make A Woman Come – Every Time!

If you’re a man who wants to satisfy your sexual partner, here are five top tips which will allow you to give pleasure to any woman.

1 Take your time.

Start by simply relaxing together without any expectations of her reaching orgasm. This will help her come more easily, because she knows this time is devoted to her pleasure and the pressure on her to reach orgasm is a lot less. 

The more relaxed you are about this, the better. Women often say before pleasuring starts, “It doesn’t matter if I don’t come.” Although that may sound odd to you, a woman may genuinely not know if she’s going to come when she’s starting to get sexual with you. So if you want to make a woman come, it will help if you both understand what you each expect from your time together. (Read this for more on what sex means to a woman.)

2. Create a romantic atmosphere. 

If you’re trying to find the best ways to make a woman come, you’re likely to be much more successful if everything is comfortable and suggests love and romance to her. 

Women are biologically programmed about sex in a different way to men, and this difference should play into how you approach your lovemaking. For a woman, romance and connection are probably essential for her to feel sexually aroused. She’ll most likely also reach orgasm more easily if she feels a sense of trust and respect for you as well.

3. Really get into the foreplay. 

Foreplay is absolutely essential in making a woman come. Foreplay will arouse her, make her feel open to her sexual desire, and predispose her to reach orgasm.

Good foreplay involves stimulating her whole body with tongue, lips, fingers and any other part of your own body which occurs to you! It needs to start on her non-sexual areas and move slowly into a more sexual approach as she gradually becomes more aroused. This approach will help her move more quickly into a state of mind where you’ll be able to pleasure her with an orgasm. 

Foreplay is primarily about helping a woman to become sexually aroused through physical touch. So it’s an essential part of knowing how to make a woman come. As a man, you’re probably more aroused by touch to your penis than anything else. By contrast, women require simulation to their whole body before they’re aroused enough to reach orgasm. Read more about why foreplay is important. 

Fingering Trick To Bring Her To Orgasm

4. Plenty of lube is essential!

When you’ve eventually worked your way to her clitoris or vagina, always check in with her to see if she likes what you’re doing. A better approach, though, to making a woman come, is to listen to her body language and work out what it’s telling you. Above all, use plenty of lubricant. That might be her own vaginal lubricant, if she has an ample supply, your saliva if you’re pleasuring her to orgasm orally, or an artificial lube such as coconut oil if you want to gently insert a finger onto her vagina. 

5 Try different techniques such as clitoral, vaginal and G spot stimulation.

These techniques are all useful if you want to know how to make a woman come. But we know some women can have a particularly intense orgasm when their G spot is stimulated. In fact, if she’s open to it, this can produce a very satisfying orgasm. You see, G spot stimulation tends to produce deeper orgasms which have a more emotional quality than purely clitoral orgasms. Many women consider them more satisfying than clitoral orgasms.

Sometimes you can stimulate a woman’s G spot while you’re pleasuring her clitoris with tongue or fingers. You can insert your finger inside your partner to stimulate her G spot, and so bring her to an intense orgasm. How does this happen?

G Spot vs Clitoris

Well, we know that the clitoris extends around and down on both sides of the vagina. This means that stimulation of the inside of the vagina can also stimulate parts of the clitoral body. On the basis of this fact, some experts have suggested that stimulation of the G spot is simply another way to stimulate a woman’s clitoris.

However, the G spot is an area inside the vagina which does appear to be different in form to the rest of the internal structure of the vagina. One theory is that it’s made up of a certain type of tissue (called the paraurethral sponge), which is similar to the tissue of the prostate gland in men.

This tissue can produce a fluid during sexual stimulation which may squirt out of a woman’s urethra via the Skene’s glands. This can be very exciting, and it’s not surprising that many men like to make a woman come with the “added extra” of female ejaculation. You can read about that here.

The G Spot can be found between one and two inches inside the vagina on its upper wall as a woman lies on her back. As she becomes more aroused, the texture of her G spot changes from ridged and firm, to smooth and soft. 

Many women find stimulation of this area very pleasurable indeed, and they can come to orgasm this way even if the external parts of their clitoris aren’t being stimulated.

And even for women who can’t reach orgasm in this way, stimulation of the G spot seems to make their clitoral orgasms much more intense than they otherwise would be.

But leaving the anatomy aside, what matters most here is that a man should try and discover the best way to make a woman come for her. This way, her sexual fulfilment and satisfaction will be much greater. 

The Challenges Of Female Orgasm

Reaching orgasm, or coming, also known as “cumming”, or reaching climax, isn’t as easy for most women as it is for most men. Most women just aren’t sexually programmed in the same way as men.

For one thing, they have much less testosterone. This is the hormone which gives men a powerful sex drive. Testosterone is also undoubtedly one of the reasons why men (mostly) reach orgasm so easily and so quickly – and much quicker than women.

Despite the reality – that making a woman come is often more challenging than making a man come – porn frequently shows women screaming in delight at the slightest touch, perhaps even squirting fluid everywhere at the moment of orgasm. 

This is unrealistic and not like real life at all! Yet young women who watch porn might come to the conclusion there’s something wrong with them if they can’t orgasm every time “on demand”. Let’s check out some facts.

Video – How Often Do Women Come?

These days, we are fortunate that most men want a woman to reach orgasm during a sexual experience, even if she doesn’t necessarily do so very easily. And most women, quite reasonably, expect a man to help them to come during sex. 

However, what is perhaps less well known is that sexual intercourse is not going to make most women reach orgasm. Many men are disappointed by this – they still believe that thrusting during intercourse is how to make a woman come. This is because penetration and male thrusting alone doesn’t stimulate the clitoris. Truth is, clitoral stimulation is how most women come during sex.

(You can read some interesting comments from Naomi Wolf on the matter of female orgasm here.)

The truth is that while some women can indeed come through stimulation of the G spot or the vagina alone, they are very much in a minority – between 10% and 15% at most. More importantly, it seems many, if not all, of these women are in fact reaching orgasm because somehow their clitoris is receiving stimulation during sexual intercourse, during lovemaking.

And it turns out on further investigation that if you can make a woman come by thrusting during sexual intercourse, her clitoris is most likely located much nearer her vaginal opening than the “average” woman’s. Apparently, to achieve orgasm during penetration, the crucial distance between a woman’s clitoris and her vaginal opening is 2.5 cm. More than this and it means “no orgasm, darling” during intercourse for her.

So, during penetrative sex, it’s possible that the movements of the man’s body, or the combined movement of the male and female body together, are what make a woman come. In other words, the closer a woman’s clitoris is to her vaginal opening, the more chance that woman has of receiving enough stimulation during intercourse to make her come, or bring her off. (As always, there is an exception to the “rule”. Check out how a man can make a woman come during intercourse by using the coital alignment technique – click here to find out more.)

Video – The G Spot

The G Spot Mystery

This is a very helpful video! Says it all!
(ps: Yoni = Vagina)

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